I participated in a seasonal traditions exchange this year. With one partner, we swapped a handmade seasonal decoration, a tradition "tutorial," and a recipe. My tutorial explained the beginning of advent from my childhood. I have been trying to figure out how to implement this tradition with my own family now and this week thought it might make a nice winter solstice tradition, so I thought I would share:
First Advent Sunday in the Mountains (or other lovely outdoor location) Tutorial:
Background: My family and I are Christian so many of our family traditions focus on preparing for Christmas day: buying a Christmas tree, singing Christmas carols, baking cookies, organizing presents for loved ones, reading Christmas books. Celebrating the entire advent season (the four Sundays preceding advent) really allows our family to revel in the season and fully prepare for Christmas. Hands down my favorite days during this season are advent Sundays. I grew up in a small suburb of Los Angeles nestled in the foothills of the San Gabriel Mountains with a very large and active church. Our family was lucky enough to have a tightly knit group of friends with children all around the same age as my brother and I. The children in this group always felt more like siblings or cousins since my brother and I had known them for as long as we could remember. Each Sunday afternoon during Advent, we would gather at someone’s house, a park or some other place to celebrate advent with Christmas crafts, a picnic lunch, lots of play. The First Advent Sunday might have been my favorite day of the year. We always had our advent celebration in the mountains.
Essential Ingredients:
Lovely outdoor setting
Camp fire
Picnic Food
Warm drinks in thermoses
Marshmallows, chocolate, graham crackers, and sticks for smores
Guitar (and hopefully someone who plays)
Advent ring and candles
Version of the Christmas Story
Song sheets for Christmas carols
Instructions: This is how our family always celebrated the first advent Sunday in the mountains: We all bundled up and drove into the mountains to a camp ground about 40 miles from our town. We hiked in the afternoon collecting pinecones, jumping off rocks, and just enjoying the surrounding nature. Occasionally we received snow in the mountains above my parent’s house but generally it was just cold enough to make the tips of our noses rosy (this not being a common phenomenon in Los Angeles). After our hike, we all settled at the campsite to eat homemade chili warmed on Coleman stoves and roasted marshmallows for dessert. When we all had our fill, we gathered around the crackling fire to light the first advent candle, hear the beginning of the Christmas story and then sing Christmas carols. We would then pack up, usually dead tired, and drive silently through the night to our homes. I would always stare at the stars and feel the cold air though the window. It was pure magic.
Why: For me there is a special appeal to starting off the Advent season communing with nature. Growing up in Los Angeles and living in very urban west Los Angeles now, I find that I forget to stop and admire the beauty of our natural world. There is something truly magical about the quiet of winter. The time spent in the mountains gave my heart a moment to observe not only the surrounding beauty but also to absorb the stillness of winter. It allowed me to hold that magical stillness in my heart and carry it back with me to the hustle and bustle as we prepared for Christmas. It was a family ritual that I will never forget and wish to repeat with my girls. For now, we light the advent candles and sing songs just the four of us but someday I hope to have a community of friends with whom to spend the first Sunday of advent in the mountains.